Perspectives

A letter from a young girl to her mother

Dear Mom,

I know I haven't written for three months, but I have been very busy and I've been having a very exciting time.

Actually, I'm just back from the hospital, where I had spent a fortnight about two months ago. It was nothing, really - just a concussion on the back of my head, a broken leg and a hairline fracture, that I got while jumping out of the second floor of my hostel when it caught fire. In fact, I can now stand all by myself without crutches, and can almost see everything perfectly, except for a slight blur.But don't worry. The doctor says there is a good chance of me walking on my own again.

Actually, it could have been worse, if not for that nicechai-walla who saw me lying there in a dead faint and rushed me to hospital. He was very helpful, really, and came to see me everyday inthe hospital. Now that I am out of hospital, I had nowhere to go, as the hostel is still under construction.

So when he suggested that I move in with him in his hut, I thought it was very kind of him, and agreed.We are very much in love now, and I am sure that you and Dad will surely like him and accept him in the family. I am sure the minor matter thathe is fourteen years older than me and that he is of a different caste and religion, will not matter at all to broad minded parents like you. He may be illiterate and poor, but he has a heart of gold - really, Mom,you should see how he cares for both of us - me and his first wife.She is quite sweet too, and so are her three children; so there is absolutely no problem. You must be wondering how you and Dad gotinformed so late. Don't get angry, Mom. We just didn't have the time. You see,we decided to get married only recently since we thought it would be unfair to let our baby into the world without a proper surname.

Yes, Mom, you are going to be a grandmother! Congratulations! I am sure you and Dad are delighted, and will come to visit us in his village in Mizoram after we shift there next week.

OK Mom. All this did not really happen.

There was no fire, no fracture,no bigamous chai-walla and no illegitimate pregnancy.

But I did flunk in my Mathematics exam, and I wanted you to view this problem in the right perspective......

Your Darling Daughter

This is so true about any problem we face in life.........always look at it in perspective

It may seem like life is very unfair to us,but look at a lot of others and we realise how lucky we are to have so much in life....a good family,a good education, a roof over our heads,food on our table,great friends........

there are millions who don't have any of these....

the little boy down your street who scavanges the dustbins for a bit of food to eat...

the kids in iraq or afganistan who don't know where the next bomb is going to come from...

the twelve thirteen year old girls from nepal who are kidnapped and sold to the brothels in mumbai....

these people have a right to complain life is not fair.....not us.

we make small problems into big issues and make life miserable for everyone around us..:-)

enjoy what we have been given and like the saying....

"live each day as if it were your last,but learn from each day as if you will live forever"